I've said this before, and I'm saying it again. We need to seize the opportunity given by the HHS mandate to shout from the housetops the Church's teaching about human sexuality. We want the best sex. Sex that does not cost is just that: cheap. Yes, yes, religious freedom is at stake. But at the end of the day is all we want the freedom to go back to being bad Catholics who live cheap and easy lives?
This is about souls! Souls of husbands and wives. Souls of children. Souls of priests. We cannot be silent, and it will cost us to speak out. Everything good costs. I have had a number of conversations in the past week with sincere young Catholics who want to live their faith in the world. I want them to. Of course, discern your vocation to celibacy (see my post here), and if you find it, look for how you are to spend yourself in the Church and its apostolates embracing celibate chastity. But if you are called to marriage (and you probably are), embrace marital chastity and get to work making the world fit for your family!
Don't worry about the darkness. We spend way too much time worried about the darkness. It enthralls us. Turn to the light. Hold up the light. It will be a struggle to be joyful raising a family and fighting the good fight! Those of us living celibate chastity need to be joyful too. We are all struggling together.
There is a big lie that we have to put to rest: that there can be joy without struggle. We have to make struggle look so fun that everyone wants to join in the the struggle for holiness. Because it is so fun to find meaning and purpose in the Cross of Jesus Christ.